Susun Kasut

Assalamualaikum

mulanya plan nk cerita pasal wedding kek (tak habis-habis cerita kek kan? hihi) tapi macam malas pulak 

sbb dh lama xcerita ttg Hana jadi hari ni nk sharing jgk dgn semua esp parents..

dulu sebelum kahwin selalu nmpk pak su ajar anak dia Ammar susun kasut..tiap kali balik kg. tgk kasut dh tersusun rapi...cantik jer..

mmg aktiviti Ammar tiap kali balik kg dia akan susun kasut & kat rumah dia pun dia suka susun kasut..tp sekarang ni (dh besar, darjah 3) tak pasti pulak dia masih menyusun kasut ke takk...

ok..masa tu tak terfikir pun apakah hikmah menyusun kasut..cuma terfikir sbb kat sekolah cikgu suruh susun in a way to dicipline the kids tp tak terfikir ..psychologically ia byk berkait dengan kerohanian & Islam.

rupa-rupa salah satu silibus bagi pelajar tahfiz / sebelum jadi ustaz/ulama mereka dikehendaki menyusun kasut.. hanya menyusun kasut !

tujuannya untuk memupuk sifat kehambaan, sifat tawaduk / takwa , merendah diri 

ia juga sebagai salah satu cara untuk mendidik sikap supaya menjadi seorang yang teratur, seorang yang organize, tidak suka keadaan bersepah..

secara tidak lansung mendidik anak supaya tidak rasa bongkak..kerja susun kasut tu mcm kerja bawahan

bila anak dididik menyusun kasut..mereka tidak akan pandang rendah pada pekerja seperti tukang angkat sampah, cuci longkang dan sebagainya..

sama juga seperti kerja mencuci tandas..memupuk rasa kehambaan .., secara tidak lansung (indirectly) boleh mendidik jiwa kearah yang lebih positif.(tawaduk, bertanggungjawab,disiplin,pembersih) 

kasut dalam gambar tu Hana yang susun. Nmpaknya dia suka susun kasut..

lps ni memang nk kasi tugas susun kasut pd Hana sementara dia masih kecik ni eheh

she is almost 3yo in this coming April (now , 2yrs 9month) susun kasut belum cntik lagi..ada yang terbalik kasutnya hehehe

& tak lupa bagi pujian lepas berjaya buat tugasan , juga boleh memupuk sifat +ve, sbb confident, happy dan  bertanggungjawab.

agak sukar nk mengubah teknik mendidik anak mengikut kaedah Rasulullah yang sgt berkhikmah,

but as parents i will try the best to give the best..kdg2 (selalu)   meletopp jugak!

mana nk tahann kalau Hana main air dlm gelas ..kita marah tp sindir dia balik sapa nk lapp?!! dia jawab dgn selambernyaa "MAMA LAH!" adoii!

All in all, this one thing that i want to practice (because i always do this) : don't questioning WHY?

jgn soal siasat kenapa Hana kencing tak cakap? kenapa hana buat itu buat ini ..

tapi kene tukar..

Prinsip 1 - Terangkan kesalahan

               Dengan suara yang lembut, terangkan kesalahan… INGAT jangan gunakan perkataan      seperti ‘Ish..kamu ni, apelah Hana ni…(selalu ckp mcm ni smpai terkena sendir dengan Hana bila dipulak ckp apelah MAMA ni?!)

Prinsip 2 - Berikan jalan penyelesaian

                Gunakan subjek orang ketiga contoh “ seorang anak yang soleh akan sentiasa menjaga kebersihan….”

Prinsip 3 - Puji kebaikan

                 Dorong dia untuk membuat kebaikan

as a Muslim, semua guideline about everything dh tersedia..cuma nak tak nak , malas rajin aje..memanglah kita bukan Rasulullah saw yang nk buat semua mcm Rasulullah saw, but why should we neglected the good things? 

Parenting : Tips Mendidik anak mengikut sunnah Rasulullah

Sebab blog ni lebih kurang mcm my diary, nk tepek la kat sini parenting knowledge yang kdg2 terlepas pandang..sebenarnya ada byk lagi tapi selalu lupa nk simpan kat blog..

i think it is good to keep something good here in a blog ,bukan nk tunjuk /mengajar org mcm kita pandai tapi for me when i put something in a  blog it's easy for me to refer it back in the future..

besides that senang nak info-sharing dgn husband hehe

to husband: xboleh laa rotan anak smpai dia umo 6 tahun..

ok..btw, skrg Hana mmg dh mcm-mcm ragam, kdg2 rasa nk rotan je!

kdg2 terpekik pekik jgk kat dia sbb geram sgt esp time dia tantrum

tp teringat cerita ustaz, Rasulullah layan anak perempuan dia dgn sgt sabar &  very gentleman

cakap dgn lembut, pd satu ketika Fatimah r.a  dtg kepada Rasulullah ketika Rasul sedang menyampaikan sesuatu dlm majlis ilmu, sebaik ternampak anaknya baginda menyambut kedatangan Fatimah dan memimpin tangan nya. 

see, begitu sekali Rasulullah menghargai anak perempuannya.

kenapa perlu buat begitu?

from my opinion:

anak perempuan hatinya sensitif, mudah sentap , mudah merajuk & emotional, jika dilayan sama seperti anak lelaki, apabila besar anak itu mungkin akan jd memberontak, kasar & tidak rapat dengan keluarga/bapa sendiri, jika ada teman lelaki, lebih syg teman dari keluarga sendiri yang mungkin akan memudaratkan diri sendiri.

apabila bapa menghargai anak perempuannya dan menasihati dengan cara berhikmah, anak itu akan lebih menghormati bapanya dan secara tidak lansung akan taat dan tidak melakukan perkara yang dilarang Allah.

just my 2cents!

GOOD LUCKK! 

Alisya is counting numbers

She's 1yr and 5 months at that time.. Alhamdulillah she's fast learner!

i think she learns a lot through watching The Sesame Streets, even she knows some of the alphabet like A, B, C, O, M, P  (she loves to read my plat number! hehe)

playing with pen / pencil or colors is a favourite! sometimes i 'm giving her playing conteng conteng is to keep her occupied with activity..but unfortunately she's doing her creativity on the WALL! hadoiii..

and nobody notice when she's did that..

children at this stage love to explore new things, imitate an adult ..and learn very fast!

they are at the stage of learning process grow progressively, and as parents we should giving them full of support and spend some quality time together in order to have the good balance of emotion  and mental development.

wean-off Pacifier day-7

Today is exactly 1 week wean - off pacifier plan..

she's not READY to fully wean off

so i have to give her 1-2hrs before she's asleep (at night)

at the day nap, sometime i'm forcing her to sleep without it but she'll only sleep about 30-50mins

it's seem that she's not ready to take it off

don't worry, i'll let her do it slowly..

for the time being, she'll on pacifier only about 2-3hrs per day (maximum 5hours)

i think..to make it consistent wean off maybe we can do like this..

spend about 3 days in a row

let her out with outdoor activities

day-night

dont bring pacifier & entertain her with the outdoor activities untill she's really exhausted and forget about it

oh well

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we went to Hospital Pantai Ayer Keroh, there's a lot of patients had the same case (rota-virus). this is our first time using Insurance Medical Card, so i was thought that there was no problem with the protection services.........

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the next day, i received a call from my agent said that i had a problem with my protection policy, i had two months unpaid fees..so to avoid any problem occurred during payment, she advised that we paid the remaining balance. i was so confuse with what had happened because what i know that i never missed to pay the monthly fees! (what's the mistake?? i did pay monthly..where's the money gone?)

luckily we bring along our ipad, but there's no wifi in the patient's room ..fortunately there's a free wifi at the ground floor cafe..

i was using maybank2u since i had started working which was in 2007;  i'm using maybank2u for paying bills, online shopping, transfer to third party and buy top up number (previously i was using prepaid call service)

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luckily, i found the transaction history..i paid RM 100 for December till January 2012... so what was the problem? and hubby asked "are you sure that you paid to the right number?"

quickly i take out the medical card from my purse and double check the policy number that i had entered to the favorite paylist..

OHH demm! i had typed it wrongly!!! only the last two digit!
oh well my fault;


immediately, i call the agent and explain what had happened ..
my agent said the insurance company cannot assure that i will get back my money..
but i have to pay the unpaid balance immediately to avoid any problem..

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she's already cured

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wean off pacifier day - 3 & 4

Day three is Saturday 22 December 2012

as usual she woke up around 10am, she still refuse to eat anything;  very little. so i cook spaghetti soup.she ate quite a lot..and currently what i need to do is..

1. make sure she eat enough food; when she's full she'll sleep soundly
2. entertain her with  activities ;activities that will make her feel tired and she'll easy fall asleep so she'll not bothering with her pacifier

hheheheh...let's see!
 

wean-off Pacifier - day 2

Today is actually day-4 .. because i had a battle to be solved, so this blog cant be updated regularly

by the way, on the day two..

she's off from pacifier more than 24hrs, from day 1 at 1200 till 0100 day two, but she has less sleep (pity her)
she's only take a nap about 50mins in the afternoon, later that day i brought her to my grandma house..to slow down a bit her stress (she's cranky all the time that evening)

i made her begedil for lunch. Alhamdulillah she eat more than before..

see her sleepy eyes? pity her

mama will help you to wean off the pacifier ok?

i dont want you to regret / blame to me if u dnt hv pretty teeth

i feel so sorry for her at that night, i know she's so sleepy but she cant sleep. it's already 1am++

so i gave her the old pacifier that is for infant..and put in arm cradle..she's asleep less in 10mins

observation day 2:

-she can't be forced

- she already accept that her fav pacifier is cannot be used so she just accept any pacifier that she has

-i think i should not do this drastically, so i'll give the pacifier when she's really wanna sleep and take out when she's sleeping

-she didnt ask for pacifier during her play time

- i found out that her cough and flu is slowly cured

Wean-off Pacifier battle day 1

Assalamualaikum,
Selamat hari jumaat!
Hana had a fever last week..and it seem that she had a fever once in a month!does it normal?
I dont think so...

Back to the topic above, it's actually one of my mission to be accomplished during my unemployed period. There's a lot of to-do list which need to be achieved. One of them was no more pacifier for Hana..i was doing this quite drastic..but i was plan about this a longgg ago..
It's the time to wean off the pacifier when..

She always on fever, flu,cough
She feels so comfort with the pacifier and this is not a good sign
She refuse to eat, only want milk
Too comfort,untill it's hard to wake her up from sleep/ nap
The pacifier always get dirty with dirt, hairs and etc because she always throw it anywhere she wants

Before i cut the pacifier a bit in the middle , i'm always telling her that it was stingy, dirty etc
So i think that will recorded in her mind and will help her understand about this.

As a mother, this is a big challage by this stage, because u'll facing hard feelimgs either pity , give up,   Or patient, relax, and firm. Deep inside me i was hoping that she will wean it off by herself like other child. But that's not happen.

And today, (because i feel so uneasy of the late wakeup and refuse to eat) i feel kind of mad and frustrated,  so cut it a bit in a middle!

i bought this pacifier since she's four month..this is Basilic Brand, it's suitable till 6 months old..but she used this until 20 months!


So there's a hole in the middle of pacifier!
I said that i was cockroach who bite it!

she was soo angry and get mad, pity her because she had a flu & a bit cough..but i have to be firm because the pacifier is one of the reason she's always got flu & cough

the day one battle is kind of tired; i'm not doing anything except supporting (entertain) her ; and finally she fall asleep for a nap about 1 hour after watching sesame street ; yes, she manage to sleep without soother or maybe she's too sleepy. and i bake some muffins for her, to make sure she always has something to eat..

at night is the most challenging; she refuse to sleep even-though she is really sleepy, and she so angry to see her puting kopek has bitten by cockroach..after a few times of battle, eventually she's fall asleep in my cradle arms..

observation day 1:

- she's rely on soother when she's wanna sleep
-she's cannot accept another pacifier

Hana has go to the cinema

we didn't go to cinema for an ages..and when we've this little girl, we think it's quite difficult to bring her along..
but one day, when we're spending our weekend at in laws house, my BIL decided to bring us and the whole family watching a movie..

so here we goO!

i'm kinda excited every time doing anything with Hana for the first time..

she was sleeping along the way to the cinema..

Hana with her sleepy face!

we were watching SkyFall !

there were 6 adults and 3 kids , so we choose to had one row sitting together, luckily not so many people at that time

i don't think she will be sleeping in the cinema because it's new environment for her, so we just let her enjoy her pop corn! 

she ate popcorn till she cannot eat any more..and trying to climb up to the front seat..

about 30minutes left, i can't control her anymore because she's trying to move around to other places

so i gave her iPad..

luckily, she's OK..! and dont mind with the loud and dark !

she's even can finish her puzzle game by herself! hhehe

i dont think we will bring Hana again to the cinema unless there's a kids movie..

there's no right or wrong when parents bring along their children to the cinema

it's depends on the parents HOW they wanna treat their children, either to let them expose (guided positively) or just let them play in a cage, no harm no deal!

the most IMPORTANT is love, ISLAM and education.

:)

Little Hana is 18 months!

my little Hana is getting cheeky, notty and brainy!

her Notty:

1. suka Haipp haipp org yg dirasakan x suka / org tu ngumpat dia /org tu nak marah dia
2. climbing here and there............sekelip mata dh kat atas cofee table, atas sofa kat tmpt letak kepala / atas meja ABC dia
3. suka meraung-raung mengamuk lembik lembik badan jika xdapat apa dia nak..> bossy?


Her Cheeky:

1. suka cakk cakk people
2. pandai ambil hati org dgn pangil lembut2 such as maamaa............nenekkkk...abahhhh
3. tgh nangis tetiba gelak bila dpt ape dia nak

Her Brainy:
1. easily learn new things..her vocab now are:
    cat,dog,bear,bird,pumpkin,apple,chicken,pig,pergi,lagi, tak tahu, no,car, apak, book..(only this i remember)
2. can sing ABC songs and recognize the alphabet ABC..123
3.Understand an order such as.. go and get things, wait there


and SHE loves FOOD very much!


semoga my little Hana will be a good daughter with good attitude and solehah..